Setting your navigation where you really want to go

January 23, 2014 § 2 Comments

Your mind is like a garden.

If you do not deliberately plant flowers and tend carefully, weeds will grow without any encouragement at all.  

-Brian Tracy

Positive affirmations work. Sometimes. When it does not work, it is because our thoughts are not aligned with our feelings. I may want to believe that “I love myself” and  “I deserve happiness.” But somewhere inside, as I say it, a monster (I don’t know who put it there)  says, “bullshit” and cancels out my affirmation. Just like that.

But you gotta fake it til you make it.

You just can’t walk around telling awful lies about yourself, to yourself, that you suck. That the other person’s happiness is more important than yours. That prosperity is just not in your cards. That you aren’t smart or beautiful enough. So it’s best to stop telling the story.

Truth is, you are incredible, lovable, beautiful, unique and deserve to be happy. It just may not feel true. Until it does, there is a technique that I believe is more effective than repeating affirmations that get canceled out by inner monsters. Until “I love myself” can roll off the tongue without the “bullshit” that follows, add something else that your monster doesn’t know what to do with.

Adding can be easier than subtracting. 

For instance, some find it easier to add healthy foods into their diets than to subtract the bad ones. Focus on the healthy foods you added long enough, and the healthy habits can prevail as the cravings for junk food diminish. When the focus is on subtracting the junk food, the urge persists and eventually wins.

Similarly, if positive affirmations are difficult because you resists them, then use the same addition technique by repeating words that inherently seeds Self love and fearlessness, only you don’t fully know that it does. Because it’s not in your native tongue. Which is good, cause then your ego can’t go into full sabotoge mode. It can tell you to stop, but it can’t shut you down with the “bullshit.” 

Chant.

Any time your story comes up, immediately replace it with any of these three (there are many, many others, but 3’s a good start, right?):

Try it. Repeat often. See what happens. Here is how it sounds like on repeat. So you’ve got this story going on in your head that sounds a little bit like blame, shame or justification, and you say, 

As I was writing this blog, I received a sweet phone call from a friend who stopped by this morning. He said, “This morning, I woke up very early with wonderful thoughts on my mind. And my navigation went to where my thoughts were going...

That’s really how it works.

Power of Mantra

July 7, 2012 § Leave a comment

“Keep your thoughts positive because your thoughts become your words. Keep your words positive because your words become your behavior. Keep your behavior positive because your behavior becomes your habits. Keep your habits positive because your habits become your values. Keep your values positive because your values become your destiny.”  —Mohandas K. Gandhi

Many years ago when I was in sales, I bought this cassette tape (I said many years ago) on how to be persuasive. It was all about the words we use. Nothing else. Use and instead of but; share what is possible instead of what is not; focus on what works instead of the obstacles. When I found yoga in search for a sense of peace and happiness, I found that, at the end of the day the same principles applied. With the exception that the ultimate goal was not to persuade others but to be happy with myself. Turns out I’m more persuasive being happy. Funny how that works. And when I am not, the world lets me know. A little bit of awareness opens the floodgates to messages all around us with feedback and opportunity to adjust ourselves before we stray too far.

Keep your thoughts positive because your thoughts become your words. 

How do we do that?

What I found to be the most powerful tool for shifting thought and gaining control over my own thoughts is mantra. Mantra is what you say over and over again, day after day. And the essence of that single phrase repeated gets embedded vibrationally at the cellular level and becomes who we are. Examples of mantra:

Amen

Salaam Shalom

I am sensible and in control of my finances.

I am perfect just the way I am.

I’m not smart enough.

I am too old.

It’s his fault.

I’m an idiot.

I am sexy and I know it

Ek Ong Kar. Sat Nam. Siri. Wahe Guru.

And when we say, think, or feel something over and over again, it enforces the pathway towards like action.

What I like about yoga mantra is that I can stay neutral with them. I don’t have to know what Ek Ong Kar means, and when I don’t know what it means, I am less likely to project my own stuff onto it and sabotage my efforts. I can simply say it over and over again and let it do its work.

Because of its power, mantra as a spiritual practice –spiritual meaning to know oneself- is an excellent way to reduce stress and anxiety and quiet the chattery monkey mind, which can help relieve insomnia or depression. It can open up the mind to see the gifts of life. It can bring a sense of abundance, calm, neutrality, oneness, self-empowerment, connection, and groundedness, as well as enhance creativity, spontaneity and love of life. Try it.

Japji 25th Pauree for Wealth & Prosperity

July 4, 2012 § Leave a comment

When chanted eleven times, each pauree in Japji produces a certain effect. This one is for prosperity and fulfillment of all of your needs. I’ve chanted this once through so that you may get the pronunciation of it, along with the transliteration so that you may follow along visually. Until I figure out how to repeat this eleven times and transfer it into a YouTube video efficiently, I ask you to replay it ten additional times to get your eleven. Sorry.

How to do Sat Kriya

June 25, 2011 § Leave a comment

Yes, I’m doing it again. For only 40 days this time…

To those of you who are joining me, I am very excited to be doing this together! This kriya is quite special. I won’t say more. Below are instructions on how. I have taken this directly from the KRI International Teacher Training Manual Level 1 to ensure accuracy:

*Sit in rock pose. The heels are under the sitting bones. The knees are together.
*Stretch the arms over the head with elbows straight, until the arms hug the sides of the head.
*Interlace all the fingers except the index fingers. Men cross the right thumb over the left. Women cross the left thumb over the right.
*Begin to chant “Sat Naam” with a constant rhythm of about 8 times per 10 seconds. As you pull the navel in and up toward the spine, chant “sut” from the Navel Point. Feel it as a pressure from the 3rd Chakra center. With the sound “naam,” relax the belly.

During Sat Kriya we focus on the Navel Point motion. Pull it inward and slightly up as you say “sut.” Release it with “naam.” Continuing rhythmically, the root and diaphragm locks are automatically pulled. The steady waves of effort from the navel gradually enlist the movement of the greater abdomen, just as the small rhythmical ocean waves will gently rock a large boat. The force is through the navel but the two locks come along sympathetically. This natural pull of the two locks as we focus through the navel, creates a physiological balance. Blood pressure is maintained evenly.

Breath regulates itself- no breath focus is necessary.

The spine stays still and straight. The rhythmic contraction and relaxation produces waves of energy that circulate, energize, and heal the body. This is neither a spinal flex nor a pelvic thrust. Remain firmly seated on the heals throughout the motions of the kriya.

Continue for 3 to 31 minutes. [the majority of this group is doing this for 11 to 31 minutes. Know where you are on your journey.]

To end: inhale and gently squeeze the muscles from the buttocks all the way up along the spine. Hold it briefly as you concentrate on the area just above the top of the head. Then exhale completely. Inhale, exhale totally and hold the breath out as you apply a firm mahabandh [all the locks: root, diaphragm, neck]- contract the lower pelvis, lift the diaphragm, lock in the chin, and squeeze all the muscles from the buttocks up to the neck. Hold the breath out for 5 to 20 seconds according to your comfort and capacity. Inhale. Relax. If you practice this as a complete kriya in itself, the relaxation is ideally twice the length of time as you practice the Sat Kriya [at minimum, rest in savasana for equal time given for the kriya].

Any questions, contact me. Enjoy your journey!  Sat Nam.

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