Think about that.
The amount of pain you can transfer onto others will reflect the level of pain you are in. Or perhaps it’s easier to see it the other way: the amount of pain someone can unleash onto you reflects the amount of pain they are in.
On the other side, you offer the amount of generosity and love you have. Or, if you see amazing things in others…well, it takes one to know one.
When someone annoys or inspires you, these triggers indicate that we’ve experienced something relating to that, and they present themselves as opportunities to heal or celebrate that part of you.